How to Kiss a Girl

15 Feb

Kiss a GirlSo you want to kiss this gorgeous girl — but you’re not sure if she’s interested, or you don’t know how to smoothly go in for a kiss? Figuring out if she wants to kiss you can seem like rocket science, but there are some things you can do to up your odds of an amazing kiss. Here’s how to go about it.

Pay her an enchanting compliment.

Everyone loves to be complimented, and girls are no exception. A compliment is the perfect way for you to hint that you want to kiss her, while making her feel beautiful and adored. Here’s a quick primer on how to do it:

  • Focus on something you genuinely like about her. If you can, try to make it something that’s special and unique about her, compared to other people you know. A compliment that you truly mean will always sound better than something you make up, so choose carefully.
    • Do not build your compliment around physical features such as her butt, her figure, her weight, etc. If you’re going to use her looks, stick to her eyes, her hair and her smile; don’t venture out of those three areas for now.
  • Think about the phrasing. You could just say, “Hey, I like your smile,” but that’s not exactly memorable. You want the compliment to be something she remembers the exact wording of, because it made her smile. Here are some examples that are better worded:
    • “Your smile is completely dazzling.”
    • “Your laugh is my favorite sound in the world.”
    • “Honestly, your eyes are the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen.”
  • Say it in a romantic way. Delivery matters — the nicest compliment in the world can fall flat if you rush or mumble. Try these methods:
    • Lower the tone of your voice slightly. Doing this conveys a sense of intimacy.
    • Lean in slightly when you say it. If you do this, you can also turn down the volume of your voice a bit — another trick that makes the compliment seem private.
    • If you’re feeling really brave, you can lean in and whisper it in her ear. Doing this is a good test for whether or not she likes having you that close to her face. If she responds well, you’re probably clear to try for a kiss.

Get her alone.

This is probably the most important thing you can do to make your kiss romantic. If you try to kiss a girl in front of your friends, she’ll think you’re trying to show her off as a trophy. Instead, make it seem like an intimate and special moment by making sure you’re alone with her. Pull her away from the pack with these tactics:

  • If you’re with a group, ask her to hang back with you for a minute.
  • Or, if you’re at a party or large gathering, you can also ask if she’d like to go outside and get some air.
  • In school you can ask her to go to your locker with you or a walk around the school is very romantic in the summer or in autumn
  • Ask if you can walk her home, whether it’s from school, work, or a party.
  • Or, if all else fails, ask her out on a date! That way you’re guaranteed alone time.

Set the mood.

Make sure the atmosphere around you is romantic, and half of the hard work is done! Going through the effort to set up an enchanting scene communicates how you feel, as well as making it easier for her to see you in a flattering way. Here’s how to do it:

  • Find a softly-lit place. It’s probably possible to come off as charming in broad daylight, but it’s not easy. Instead, find a setting that has forgiving lighting that conveys a sense of romance. Try these ideas:
  • Sunsets are considered universally romantic, especially if you have a good viewing point
  • If it’s a full moon, you could rely on the moonlight — you should still be able to see after your eyes adjust.
  • If it’s a rainy day, find shelter under a porch or in a car. The small amount of light filtering through the rain should be shimmery and soft.
  • If it’s dark and you’re walking her home or dropping her off, rely on streetlights or porch lights for ambient lighting. For extra intimacy, though, stay just barely out of the brightest area.
  • If you’re camping or at a bonfire, make use of the flickering firelight! To recreate the look indoors, you can light a few candles.

Keep the conversation focused on her.

If you want a kiss any time in the next hour, steer the talk away from anything that she might find disgusting or revolting. A quick review of what to do:

  • Do not talk about:
    • How amazing you think other girls are. Seriously, don’t ever bring this up.
    • Everything that’s wrong with your life/all the stuff you don’t like. Complaining isn’t sexy.
    • Stuff that you’d discuss with your guy friends.
    • Bodily functions. Ever.
  • Do talk about:
    • How amazing you think she is. For how to pay a great compliment.
    • Her interests and thoughts. If you’re ever at a loss for words, ask what she thinks about something or just say you like her hair.
    • Things you two have in common, such as shared experiences or hobbies.




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